Friday, April 02, 2010

I shall appreciate my bf's strong determination and long suffering and perseverance!

Brenda and Andre broke up..


It's really rude to show you the whole conversation cause it's personal matter ma.. but then I dont know how to portray Bird's upside if dont show you.. Think think hhmm.. she doesn't know I have a dead blog with very little reader.. so.. dont care lah!


It started off with an email


I cant send you an offline msg via phone so must type mail. Anyway my mum's on leave tmr and I have class till 12.30pm. I told Andre that my mym can come pick me up cos she's on leave then he kept on insisting that he'll fetch me instead. So after few times of telling him, and he lept insising so I said ok. He fetch. And then right we're suppose to watch this dvd Hachiko together tmr after class. Earlier on I msged and asked him if we're watching it at my place or his place, e said yours 'cos my parents are not in. I got mad lah. I said so many times that my mum is on leave somemore he dare say that. My keypoint is that I'm damn mad cos it seems like he doesn't listen to what i'm saying!!!

Yup. That's the cause


Then I proceeded on to talk to her on MSN


Brenda. says (11:32 PM):
So yeah, he thinks i'm making a big fuss out of this

..after i complained bout bird and his hearing problem, andre sent her a sms..

yelocin says (11:37 PM):
he msg u what
Brenda. says (11:37 PM):
Hey im going to sleep.tmr will be another day wasted not getting to watch hachiko
Brenda. says (11:37 PM):
What bullshit
Brenda. says (11:38 PM):
U want, then make it happen la!
Brenda. says (11:38 PM):
Talk cock over ther
Brenda. says (11:38 PM):
There*
Brenda. says (11:40 PM):
I just replied
yelocin says (11:41 PM):
say what
Brenda. says (11:41 PM):
i said if he wanted to see me bla bla
Brenda. says (11:41 PM):
Make it happen

..then I started telling stories like, trying to distract her from her anger and sorrow.. then after a long while...


Brenda. says (12:00 AM):
He just said it's over
yelocin says (12:00 AM):
its over?
yelocin says (12:00 AM):
means not going over anymore?
Brenda. says (12:01 AM):
Means
Brenda. says (12:01 AM):
Break up
yelocin says (12:01 AM):
huh
yelocin says (12:01 AM):
really meh
yelocin says (12:01 AM):
-_-
yelocin says (12:01 AM):
not even one year break meh wtf
yelocin says (12:01 AM):
u sure or not wan

..and after a lot alot of rantings.. More rants..

Brenda. says (12:15 AM):
it's always me that im making problems
Brenda. says (12:15 AM):
Not once him
Brenda. says (12:15 AM):
Always!
Brenda. says (12:16 AM):
Do u noe how hurtful is that??
Brenda. says (12:16 AM):
If he's so perfect
Brenda. says (12:16 AM):
Go find a perfect girl
Brenda. says (12:17 AM):
I swear i tell u
Brenda. says (12:17 AM):
I swear that i said my mum's on leave
Brenda. says (12:17 AM):
And look
Brenda. says (12:17 AM):
Is he trying to nake things right?
Brenda. says (12:17 AM):
Something small
Brenda. says (12:17 AM):
I know
Brenda. says (12:17 AM):
but dun u see
Brenda. says (12:18 AM):
Im not happy at all because he kept saying he didnt hear
Brenda. says (12:18 AM):
Then say
Brenda. says (12:18 AM):
He doesnt bother doing anything cos if he knows if he finds me tmr it'll be another wasted day
yelocin says (12:19 AM):
-_-
yelocin says (12:19 AM):
is tht what he said
Brenda. says (12:19 AM):
That was after i told him
yelocin says (12:19 AM):
or u intrepret it
Brenda. says (12:20 AM):
if he really wanted to see me, he'll make it happen



Really, no matter what happened he has never once said break up to me. I asked him before how come everytime i said want to break up he will never agree to the suggestion, he said he just think it's not worth it to give up because of small little things.


Things like this happen to us all the time. Bird has got hearing problem, all thanks to blasting music/movies and online game sound effect. I dont have a very strong lungs so sometimes I do talk rather softly.


So when this happens, I will end up getting very frustrated I will SHOUT at him and he cannot tahan being shouted at will eventually shout back and scold me lah. Of course, I am tigress ma, I will not let someone scold me when IT IS NOT MY FAULT. I SCOLDED HIM BACK WITH A LOUDER VOICE LAH...


Then he will say sorry.


Then, tian xia tai ping. Everything back to normal again.


No matter how hard we fight no matter how rude i was to him no matter what shit i did, we will never end things by breaking up, or rather he will never allow it to happen. No matter how serious I was to break up he will never agree to set me free. And for the record, he never once suggest to break up. Not ONCE.


Sometimes, it's nice to start thinking on the brighter side. Being positive really makes you a much happier person!

3 comments:

_VeL_ said...

He never once mention breaking up too. The word 'break up la' is too easy to be said by girls. While, some guys try not to say it, because he doesn't wanna look like he dump the girl. Some guys try not to say it because he really cherish the relationship.

So you also stop saying break up la. -.-

So Brenda and Andre really broke up ah?

cheahwey said...

do tell if they're back together.

-Littlenicky- said...

aahhh patched up this morning.